Empath grief support can only be sourced from an empath, spiritual guide, or deity for which you can receive spiritual discernment and true connection to source without feelings of guilt, and remorse as those with less connection experience.
Read MoreRetrogrades are truly nothing to fear. It’s the universal assist that you need to slow down and make your time Earth side meaningful. When you think about retrograde, forget about everything you think will be derailed and focus on what is actually coming back around as a mirror for an incomplete lesson.
Read MoreBirth is an experience that is different for everyone. Much of the birth experience depends on your role or your perceived role. Comparatively, one could make the same connection with trauma as it relates to birth. As a pregnant woman, I didn't think much about the trauma associated with birth until it was too late.
Read MoreIntuitive guidance has become an experimental act of rebellion, more than a method of deeper connection to the esoteric world. Most people who enter the realm of guidance seek validation but also seek to hold a sense of authority that cannot exist in a spiritual experience. These authoritative tendencies block the inability to learn.
Read MoreIntuitive Coaching is often superior to traditional therapy in the sense that the coach or guides intuitive abilities becomes the cheat code in having to rehash the darkest moments of your life circumstances. These days healing your wounds is on the forefront of most intimate conversations, and cultivating empathy is becoming so mainstream it has been adopted as a catchy organizational focus in the corporate setting.
A belief is only something you have consistently heard or have told yourself many times. So when you have had a parent that has been highly negative about your ideas, choices, or future plans, at some point, you have no choice but to believe it too. We self-sabotage ourselves when we don't have genuine sources of support.
Read MoreI think the thing most people don't realize about grief is that you go a little insane to be able to wrap your head around your loss. And not just the loss of someone else. Anyone you lose reminds you that your days are numbered. The insanity forces you into periods of obsession that start so subtly that you don't realize you are fixated on everything but one thing at a time.
Read MoreHealing and spirituality have become synonymous with each other. While once taboo, spirituality is on the tip of the average millennial's tongue. And because of this, it is forcing different generations, such as Gen X and even Baby Boomers, to consider something they haven't done out loud before: seeking healing for their trauma.
I didn't learn about grief soon enough because it was my parent's responsibility to teach me. In the same way, they didn't teach me about financial literacy, buying a house, or how to date. My parents didn't prepare me to be without them because they were too busy in their versions of survival mode.
Read MoreThe thing about these type of white women is that they have no concept of true empathy. They spend a lot of time being complicit in voting, and spending the generational wealth that they have been afforded, that they have elevated themselves beyond a place where they truly have to be introspective, genuinely thoughtful, or can actually connect with even the concept of being permanently disadvantaged.
Read MoreFrequently I observe confrontation as a difficult task for those I meet on the journey. In intuitive coaching, the mission is to aid those ready to confront themselves through the spiritual messages. As a person in resistance, the natural inclination is to resist both the vessel and the message and bring the conflict to that which confronts them.
Read MoreMy first spiritual retreat existed in my mind before I had my first client. Of course, you could say that retreats were always the goal. But, you can't host an empty spiritual retreat and call it a success, so I had to create a pathway for my dream, but I also needed a bit of experience. Back then, I held my breath whenever someone booked a psychic session.
Read MoreIt’s been 20 years since the attacks on the twin towers, and the perception of Muslims has changed very little. While we are seemingly and very outwardly making empathy and healing our top priority now, how are we as a collective still unwilling to shift our perspective of our Muslim neighbors entirely?
Whether you are more financially successful than your parents were at their age has no bearing on how and where your trauma will manifest. Becoming more successful faster was most likely the sacrifice in emotional growth that your parents had to make to drive your educational and financial gain. There aren't enough upgrades you can do socially, financially, or in environments that will interrupt any pattern of trauma if there isn't an emotional upgrade within.
The practice is not the hard part. The practice is easier when you have removed the conflict in your beliefs. The difficulty in the work correlates to your ego states being preferable. Spiritual obligations are only a burden for those in a state of resistance, and generally some degree of fear.
Read MoreBoundaries are something you never get to stop talking about when thinking about coaching. I still don't understand why people make boundaries harder than necessary. I always find that those insisting on creating boundaries for others never entirely respect boundaries when they find themselves restricted by boundaries.
If organizational empathy resembled anything decent and acceptable, we wouldn't be fighting tooth and nail for some of our most necessities in the corporate space. Such as diversity, equity, and inclusion, paid maternity/paternity leave, and a slice of a reasonable work-life balance that allowed the human to be the priority. If empathy was legitimized organizationally, would The Great Resignation even be a thing?
Sometimes we get caught up in believing the strength we have acquired by enduring issue after issue is what defines us. But it's not. The soul is not easily defined because it is ever-changing, constantly learning and growing with each lesson. So there could not be a single instance or a single circumstance to serve as a defining moment for your soul.
Read MoreMy pain has made me clear. My trauma and grief have set me free. But only because I was willing to embrace the lesson that only can come in emotional introspection of the past and our present emotional state. I am not afraid of what comes now in this after, because I have unpacked my before. I’m not yet unburdened of my saddens and I may never be.
Mothering is a bigger job than we all expect it to be. All we know about it is that most of us grew up with a mother, and I believe that we begin as young adults gauging our readiness for motherhood based on how prepared we believed our mothers to be upon initiation. And, I think that is where we falter.
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