In transition, we must allow ourselves to be reflective of the changes we need to make to make our pathway easier. I find that so many people cling to what is negative in hopes that the light they seek will shine on them and thereby illuminate their situation. And, it can give you clarity but when you think about generations of discord, and not being intentional for the next generation, it’s hard to sit still and expect levity.
Our how starts with being present. But, through our incarnation, we have learned to depend on external satisfaction and have over time disregarded all aspects of ourselves that cannot be validated externally. So, we are our problem.
Read MoreGrief is eerie in the silence it requires, despite the noise of the constant flow of condolences. What are condolences anyway? I mean really. Everything changes in grief, in loss. How could it ever be the same? When something constant and is irrevocably yours leaves this plane, there is no consolation.
