The 4 Zodiac Signs that Struggle with Change
Everyone says they want change until it requires something from them. Until it demands self-reflection, accountability, and a willingness to let go of what's familiar. Nowhere is this struggle more evident than in the fixed signs of the zodiac—Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, and Aquarius.
The truth is that change isn't easy for anyone, but the fixed signs are especially wired to resist it. Even when they claim they're seeking growth, fixed signs often bring skepticism, self-judgment, and a dose of arrogance, unknowingly blocking the transformation they want.
I've always welcomed change, not because it's easy but because I had no choice. Growing up with financial instability and a chronically ill father, adapting was part of survival. It shaped me into someone who embraces the unknown rather than fears it. But I've noticed something interesting: the people who seek intuitive guidance the most often resist it the hardest.
Whether they realize it or not, intuitive guidance is all about transformation—shedding old patterns, moving unseen roadblocks, and stepping into alignment with the life you're meant to live. Yet, in modern times, spirituality has become something people "try on," like a pair of jeans at the mall. It's just an experience to add to their bucket list, a conversation piece for when the group trip finally makes it out of the chat. Ayahuasca, tarot, a psychic reading—people want the experience, but not the responsibility that comes with it.
But here's the real kicker: transformation is inevitable whether you fight it or welcome it. The question is: will you let it work for you, or will you keep standing in your own way?
The Fixed Sign Dilemma: You Can't Demand Change & Resist It at the Same Time
Each fixed sign resists change in its own way:
Taurus wants transformation, but only if they can control the pace. Rather than surrendering to guidance, they'd carve out a DIY path—even if it leads in circles.
Leo projects their frustrations onto everyone else. If things aren't moving the way they want, it's never their fault—it's always the world, the guide, the timing, the circumstances.
Aquarius prides itself on being open-minded but often treats intuition like a science experiment—detached, skeptical, and waiting for proof while claiming to believe already.
Scorpio deeply desires transformation but only trusts it when it's their idea. They resist anything challenging their sense of control, even when they know it's the truth.
Here's what I wrestle with: Why do fixed signs often seek out a Gemini, someone whose superpower is change, to lead them? It sometimes feels like they're paying for guidance just to argue with it, like they want to test the boundaries rather than step into transformation.
The Disconnect: You're Not Fighting Me—You're Fighting Spirit
Fighting Spirit is where the real damage happens. When people resist intuitive guidance, they often think they're just testing me, the guide. But I'm not the source of the messages. I'm merely the channel. What they're resisting is Spirit itself.
Spiritual guidance isn't a conversation you control. It's a transmission of truth. You're not just rejecting me when you come in skeptical, dismissive, or unwilling to listen. You're rejecting the answers you claimed to seek. And over time, that damages your connection to Spirit.
If you've ever walked away from a session feeling like you didn't get what you wanted, ask yourself:
Did you come in ready to listen, or were you waiting for something to prove you wrong?
Were you genuinely open or secretly looking for reasons to resist?
Did you want guidance, or did you want validation for what you already believe?
Because here's the truth: Spirit doesn't force change upon you. It offers doorways. But if you refuse to step through, that's not a failure of guidance… that's your choice.
So, what will you choose?
Are you ready to stop resisting the change you say you want? The next step isn’t just about finding guidance, it’s about being willing to embrace it. If you’re ready to leave the resistance behind and step into transformation, let's have a conversation. Book your session now and discover what’s waiting for you when you finally surrender to your growth.